生活中我们都需要有的8种朋友

http://www.youth.cn  2014-05-01 15:54:05  中国青年网

  Did you know that people without friends are more likely to die an early death? It’s true. Just ask science.

  你知道吗?没朋友的人更可能早死。是真的。看看科学依据吧。

  To up your chances of living a long, happy life, having a bunch of fair-weather buddies won’t do the trick. You need a diverse, well-rounded entourage that will stick with you through thick and thin. The following eight types of friends are just what you need to keep the doctor away.

  要想过着幸福长寿的生活,有一群酒肉朋友是实现不了的。你需要多元化、全面的朋友团队来和你同甘共苦。下面这八种类型的朋友能让你远离医生。

  1. A Loyal Best Friend

  一个忠诚的、最好的朋友

  Sometimes a loyal best friend is the only thing you need to stay sane. Everyone needs a non-judgmental friend who will support them no matter what. This is the kind of friend who knows all of your deepest and darkest secrets, but still loves you all the same.

  有时一个忠诚的、最好的朋友是你保持理智所唯一需要的。每个人都需要有一位这样的朋友。无论发生什么事情,他/她都会支持而不是批判你 。这种朋友 知道你所有隐藏最深的、最黑暗的秘密,但是他们仍然爱你。

  2. A Fearless Adventurer

  一个无畏的冒险家

  We live in a big world where there are so many places to see, people to meet, and experiences to be had, yet so many of us are stuck in our own routines and forget to, well, live. We all need an adventurous friend who will pull us out of our shells and introduce us to new ideas, cultures, philosophies, and activities.

  世界那么大,有那么多可以去的地方、可以去认识的人、可以去经历的体验,然而很多人却困在自己的日常生活中,忘记了去享受生活。我们都需要具有冒险精神的朋友,他/她会让我们变得活跃,给我们带来新的想法、文化、人生观和活动。

  3. A Brutally Honest Confidant

  敢说真话的知己

  There’s certain situations in life where we need to hear the harsh truth. That’s what the brutally honestconfidantis for. If you’re in a rocky relationship and everyone’s telling you that it’s perfectly normal that you’re back with that special someone for the 8th time in the last 2 years, the brutally honest confidant is there to yank your rose-colored glasses off and tell you, “Enough. Stop with all that break-up-and-get-back-together drama. You deserve better.”

  在生活中,我们有时需要听到残酷的现实。这就是为什么要有个敢说真话的知己。如果你在一段不稳定的关系中,每个人都告诉你,在过去的两年里你和那个人第八次和好这很正常,而敢说真话的知己则会否定你那过于乐观的观点,告诉你,“够了。别再上演分手和好的闹剧了。你值得和更好的人在一起。”

  Friends are supposed to be honest with each other. If you find someone who is brutally honest with you (in aconstructiveway), then hold on to this person! People like that are hard to come by these days.

  朋友间应该彼此诚实以待。如果你找到了敢说真话的知己(以积极的方式),那么要一直和这个人做朋友!这样的朋友现在是很难得的。

编辑:廖书曼 来源:沪江英语网

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